The son of renowned England cricket figure Graham Thorpe has shared about a supportive message he received from Gareth Southgate, whom he considers a hero, following his father’s tragic passing in 2024. Henry Thorpe, Graham’s son, expressed the difficulty he faced in accepting his father’s death at the age of 55, just two years after Graham lost his position as England’s assistant coach.
In an interview with The Telegraph, Henry disclosed that he only learned the true circumstances surrounding his father’s death six months later, describing his subsequent emotional struggle and descent into a dark place. However, he highlighted how a heartfelt message from former England football manager Gareth Southgate helped him navigate through one of the most challenging periods of his life.
Recalling the encounter, Henry mentioned that Southgate was present at a memorial event for his father at the Oval, where he felt hesitant to approach him but later reached out via LinkedIn, receiving a lengthy email response from Southgate, who also connected him with supportive individuals. Henry expressed admiration for Southgate’s leadership qualities and his role in guiding him through the ordeal.
Following his father’s demise, Henry resigned from his job at M&C Saatchi Merlin, acknowledging the profound impact of the loss on him. Despite the emotional turmoil, he shared that the experience provided him with a new perspective on Graham Thorpe’s career and accomplishments, evoking a mix of complex emotions ranging from anger and sadness to pride in his father’s legacy.
Graham Thorpe, who represented England from 1993 to 2005, amassed 564 international appearances, including 16 test centuries. Transitioning into coaching after his playing career, Thorpe was slated to lead Afghanistan in 2022 but fell ill before assuming the role.
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